Even though intellectually, I know I might lose this argument, if I’m honest, I have to admit that viscerally I object to the mass media public humiliation of people arrested for lewdness. I know plenty of people believe it’s a good deterrent to breaking laws against such behavior, but given these folks will have enough shame and guilt to deal with in explaining to their families and workplace, it seems overkill in the deterrent department.
Recently the pastor of a Tulsa church was arrested for propositioning a male police officer posing as a prostitute. The media are running stories on it and trying to highlight the hypocrisy of it because he’s made anti-gay-marriage statements. You can google the story based on the info I’ve provided, if you want to, but in the spirit of putting my money where my mouth is, I won’t add to this poor guy’s public scolding, at least not by name.
What made me think it’s time to voice my objection to the practice of public humiliation via mass media were the details of his case. He apparently had spoken out against same-sex marriage (but then so have some known homosexuals), but he also supported a Southern Baptist Convention directive urging its 42,000 churches to befriend gays and lesbians. Of course he reportedly encouraged that in order to try to convince gays that they can become heterosexual "if they accept Jesus Christ as their savior and reject their ‘sinful, destructive lifestyle,"’ which I object to because it’s harmful and wrong-headed, but it seems to me this fella may have really just wanted to believe that might be true too much more than he wished to harm anyone else. I can only imagine the loneliness that drove him to proposition someone he thought was a prostitute.
Of course, I’m projecting here, but my propensity for empathy is why I find the high-tech Scarlet Letter approach so obscene.
This next example is tougher because it includes people who might have actually hurt children, but still we recently watched in horror as NBC’s increasingly sloppy and sleazy journalistic offering, Dateline, aired a hidden camera investigation where they sent folks pretending to be under-aged children into chat rooms who eventually gave the address of the home where they had the cameras set up as a rendezvous point. Once someone entered the home, NBC ambushed them and recorded their excuses for being there. Now, of course, any adult who would actually show up needs to be watched carefully and possibly arrested, but what made NBC think it was their right to air their faces and voices before these folks had been officially accused of or convicted of a crime? Seriously, we were as equally disgusted with the reporting as we were the men who showed up. In fact, we were so disgusted by the reporting it made us feel somewhat sorry for the men who showed up, and so no degree of trying to excuse the reporting as a public service holds water IMO.
The police are professionals. I know they often use the media to help them do their jobs, but there are certain aspects of believing that someone is innocent until proven guilty that demand we let the police do their jobs with some degree of privacy for the accused and even the convicted. Yes, the public has a right to know when someone has been accused/convicted of a crime, but there should still be some degree of dignity (for ourselves, at least, if not the accused) that accompanies the distribution of such information.