Month: October 2005

Nice Guys

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by hilzoy

A few notes about my last post (the one on Maureen Dowd): I didn’t mean to suggest that there were any character traits, let alone major virtues, that are the exclusive province of men. I just read the comments Dowd quoted, about men not having any occasion to display their manliness etc., and thought: they seem to have something in mind, and it would be churlish to reply: so I take it you’ve stopped being an exhibitionist? or something like that. What is this something? Apparently, it seems to have to do with things like strength and courage. But why would anyone think that there is no occasion for strength and courage, rightly construed? I was assuming that any decent version of manliness would not actually be defined as “what women are not”, but would involve some positive ideal worth pursuing in itss own right, whether or not women were doing something similar. Debitage suggests that I am wrong:

“The macho impulse is a drive not just to do things that are intrinsically good for men, but to do things that distinguish men from women. This is why so much of machismo is wrapped up in policing border-blurring behavior, such as homosexuality and uppity women. Therefore it’s only manly to have strength if women are typically weak. If women can be strong too, men will have to find a different reason to be strong (and plenty of such reasons exist).”

If so, then I agree that men should give up on this whole set of motivations. No one’s psyche should actually require the weakness of others. I was hoping that there was a better way to respond to the guys Dowd quoted; but if I’m wrong, well then, I’m wrong.

(I also did not mean to suggest that my being single was the result of my not being pert, winsome, etc. (Wouldn’t it be convenient to think so!) I tend to put it down to a combination of My Many Faults and the vagaries of my personal history. I’m just not in a good position to be a counterexample to Dowd’s thesis, is all.) (Also: I should know better than to write posts while I’m rushing around getting ready to catch a train.)

All that said: the comments on that thread have now turned to a discussion of these comments:

(a): “Those of us who aren’t bastards typically find that most women take no romantic interest in us”

(b) “As a lesbian, of course, I have no direct interest in this matter. But I can tell you that the straight women of my acquaintance say the worst turn-off is a man who makes a big point of how much of a nice, non-sexist guy he is, and then expects women to be grateful and appreciative of this. A remarkable number of men don’t seem to have grasped the point that women don’t like to be told, either explicitly or implicitly, that they should be grateful to men for treating them like mature adult human beings.”

My take on this question below the fold.

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Alito

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by Charles CNN reports that Bush has chosen Samuel Alito to replace Sandra Day O’Connor on the Supreme Court.  Given the nickname of Scalito, this will comfort conservatives and not go over well with many Senate Democrats, and it remains to be seen how the Gang of 14 will decide.  Over the coming days, we’re … Read more

The President’s Foreign Policy Speech

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by Charles

With the Harriet Miers controversy and CIA leak indictments getting the media full-court press, it was easy to miss the fact that the president gave an historic foreign policy speech on Wednesday.  Bringing us back to the days of the Reagan era, he stepped up and proclaimed that one of the country’s most nettlesome nations should no longer exist.  World leaders reacted harshly to this bit of war-mongering.

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Question Of The Day

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by hilzoy Answer: Yes. So why, exactly, did Maureen Dowd need to write an entire book about it? I suppose the answer must be: because she needed to have place to put things like this: “Decades after the feminist movement promised equality with men, it was becoming increasingly apparent that many women would have to … Read more

Patrick Fitzgerald

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by hilzoy “Fontenelle says, “I bow before a great man, but my mind does not bow.” I can add: before a humble common man in whom I perceive uprightness of character in a higher degree than I am conscious of in myself, my mind bows, whether I want it or whether I do not and … Read more

Libby 5; Rove ?

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by Edward The NYT is reporting that Libby’s been indicted on 5 counts: Vice presidential adviser I. Lewis "Scooter’ Libby Jr. was indicted Friday on charges of obstruction of justice, making a false statement and perjury in the CIA leak case. Karl Rove, President Bush’s closest adviser, apparently escaped indictment Friday but remained under investigation, … Read more

“Up or Down” Dead, Dead, Dead

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by Edward

John Cole on RedState tries valiantly to save the GOP’s right to resuscitate the recently departed talking point that all Bush’s nominees deserve an up or down vote in the Senate, but it’s the most faithless sort of wishful thinking and as such deserves debunking. In response to this post by Kos, using the GOP’s own words against them, Cole takes out his hair-splitter and tries to find a difference in how the GOP derailed Harriet’s turn before the Judiciary Committee:

When Republicans and conservatives speak of a desire for an up or down vote for judicial nominees, it is born out of the frustration of the recent past in which nominees were bottled up in committee in perpetuity, were never given hearings, were never given a vote, and simply had their nomination blocked through procedural maneuvering. In fairness, this occurred under both Republican and Democratic Presidents, and in Senates led by Republicans and Democrats.

But that is not what happened in the Miers case, and to assert otherwise is to engage in a flight of fancy. A desire for an up or down vote for judicial nominees is in no way anathema to the desire (and, I might add, right) to loudly voice one’s displeasure with a nominee.

Harriet Miers was nominated to be an Associate Justice of the Supreme Court. She was given a date for confirmation hearings (they were to begin on November 7th), she had meetings with Senators, she was filling out questionnaires for the Judiciary Committee. She would, one could safely assume, have had a vote in the Judiciary Committee at the commencement of the confirmation hearings, and predicated on the outcome of that vote, a vote would have been held in the Senate at large.

In other words, she was going to get her ‘up or down vote.’ There were no calls to ‘blue slip’ her, there was no move to filibuster her (indeed, the Gang of 14 stated they would break any filibuster attempts), there were no attempts at procedural moves to block her nomination, and she was not going to be bottlenecked in committee forever.

What’s most laughable about this is this bit: "she was going to get her ‘up or down vote.’ " It’s laughable because web site’s had been set up and the call went far and wide that what the base wanted was not an up or down vote but her nomination to be withdrawn. In fact, on the Withdraw Miers website, they list the folks calling for the withdrawal and list the Senators who had expressed "Reservations," long before the hearings had offered Harriet a chance to answer her critics, including

Senator Rick Santorum
Senator Sam Brownback
Senator Trent Lott
Senator George Allen
Senator Lindsey Graham
Senator Jeff Sessions
Senator David Vitter
Senator John Ensign
Senator John Thune

So who exactly is it in the GOP that still believes the President has the right to have his choice, his chosen nominee, receive an up or down vote? Cole would like you to believe they never stopped believing this was the proper process, but the evidence suggests otherwise.

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Well, crap

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by von

First the blog double-posted my bit on Iraq; now it won’t let me delete the second post — leading to this replacement.  Consider this your "well, crap" open thread.

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Yes, Virginia, It’s Turning Around

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by von

LESS THAN TWO WEEKS AGO, I wrote that a successful Constitutional Referendum — whatever its outcome — would start to turn around Iraq, because it would invest the Sunnis in the political process.  Today, we begin to see evidence of exactly that:

NORTH OF BAGHDAD — For weeks before Iraq’s constitutional referendum this month, Iraqi guerrilla Abu Theeb traveled the countryside just north of Baghdad, stopping at as many Sunni Arab houses and villages as he could. Each time, his message to the farmers and tradesmen he met was the same: Members of the disgruntled Sunni minority should register to vote — and vote against the constitution.

"It is a new jihad," said Abu Theeb, a nom de guerre that means "Father of the Wolf," addressing a young nephew one night before the vote. "There is a time for fighting, and a time for politics."

For Abu Theeb and many other Iraqi insurgents, this canvassing marked a fundamental shift in strategy, and one that would separate them from foreign-born fighters such as Abu Musab Zarqawi, the Jordanian who leads the group al Qaeda in Iraq.

Two years of boycotting the process had only marginalized Sunnis while Iraqi’s Shiite majority gained power. And Abu Theeb’s entry into politics was born partly of necessity; attacks by Shiite militias, operating inside and outside the government security apparatus, were taking an increasing toll on Sunni lives.

So at 6:30 a.m. on the day of the referendum, Oct. 15, Theeb was already at the polling center in his village, which he had scouted out days in advance. Two of his fighters took up positions. Abu Theeb and the rest of the fighters, more relaxed, propped their Kalashnikov rifles against walls or placed them on tables.

"No one will attack," Abu Theeb assured a reporter. "I made sure some wrongdoers are protecting the school," he said, jokingly referring to al Qaeda loyalists. To head off any violence, he had co-opted the group by enlisting two of its supporters as his polling site guards.

The War in Iraq has been longer, harder, and tougher than it should have been.  There are legitimate grounds to say that it never should have been fought in the first place.  But don’t close your eyes to the fact that — slowly, painfully — we are winning in Iraq.  The Iraqis are winning.  Don’t give up the cause.

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Ah, How It Takes Me Back…

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by hilzoy From Brad DeLong: “When the Fifteen-Year-Old asked, “Why is so much of Africa so poor?” he was not expecting–and did not react well to–a dramatic reading of parts of James Ferguson (1999), Expectations of Modernity: Myths and Meanings of Urban Life on the Zambian Copperbelt (Berkeley: University of California: 0520217020).” Growing up as … Read more