How We Hurt Each Other

I just went on a blind date.  It was mildly bad insofar as I was relatively sure he wasn’t attracted to me from the start [clearly something wrong with him  🙂 ]and while we were at dinner he saw someone he knew and talked to them for 20 minutes.  I asked how long he knew … Read more

Fraud and the Rule of Law

–Sebastian This opinionjournal piece reminds me of one of the classic problems of law: Although Mr. Greenberg was Chief Executive magazine’s CEO of the Year in 2003, we are not defending him. Rather we want to ask whether CEOs have a right to due process. Reflecting their dismay at the high-handed conduct of King George, … Read more

The CT Is In the House

Ordinarily, I’d let Sebastian or Ed break this news — since it has the potential to affect them directly — but I can’t help myself: HARTFORD, Conn. — The state Senate on Wednesday gave final legislative approval to a bill that would make Connecticut the second state to recognize same-sex civil unions, and the first … Read more

On Blackjack

I took a short trip to Las Vegas at the end of last week.  It was a over-needed vacation, and thus a moderate disappointment.  You know what I’m talking about.  You’re so desperate to get away, to have a moment to sleep in and drink too much (or, if you already drink too drink much, to feel less guilty about it), that you pour your hopes and dreams and all that good stuff into the idea of a vacation, but which the vacation itself can never match.

The somewhat-highlight of the trip was Zumanity, which was considerably less shocking than it wanted to be.  Or maybe exactly as shocking as it wanted to be.  It’s so hard in these days of diminished expectations and quickie transgressions to tell when someone is trying to be shocking (and failing) or trying only to seem shocking, so as not to actually shock.*

In the balance of my time** — which is to say a whole lot of it — I played blackjack.  Alone as often as not, because the group we traveled with were primarily Crapheads and my wife got distracted early in the trip by a Monopoly gambling game (it was tremendously fun in her defense).

I like blackjack, because the "right" way to play requires the memorization and consistent application of a set of impossibly complex rules (and exceptions to those rules).  Always hit a soft 17; hit a 12 if the dealer shows a 2-4, and maybe against a 5 (but not a 6); split almost any pair if the dealer shows a 5 or 6 (but never split 10s), etc.  You know the drill — or, you now know enough that you don’t want to know the drill. 

They’re comforting, those rules.  They provide a semblance of control — but only a bare semblance, because I’m never sure if I remembered the rule right  (what do I do with a pair of sixes against an ace, again?).  A game that allows you to enjoy the guilt of failing to live up to its standards:  It’s American, just like baseball and apply pie.

(I lost, not a lot, but enough.)

So, I’m back:  A little refreshed, a little poorer, and a little sunburned.  And this is your vacation open thread.  Tell us where you’re going next (or just been); give us a recommendation or two.  But tell us, most of all, where you want to go.

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I’m STILL A Coward

Ok, got through about ten minutes of Ju-On. But I digress.  There’s much more scary things going on.  For one, there’s about a dozen convicted sex offenders within a couple miles of my house.  Quite a few of them are convicted for sex with a minor.  Right about here is where my reluctance to press … Read more

Explaining, Justifying, Demonizing

–Sebastian I think I have a better handle on what bothers me about Cornyn’s comments and similar ‘explanations’ of suicide bombing against Israel.  In both cases, the speaker pretends to be engaging in an intellectual analysis of a problem.  But the explanation is framed to both blame the victim (often by a pretending that a … Read more

Police Your Own III

–Sebastian Stupid, stupid, stupid.  If you think that the existence of the Palestinian/Israeli conflict doesn’t provide a good excuse for intentionally blowing up coffee shops don’t even think of nodding your head to this bit of idiocy: Sen. John Cornyn said yesterday that recent examples of courthouse violence may be linked to public anger over … Read more

Ashtray Monument

For all the endless cigarettes, cups of coffee, wrenching blog posts, and television talking heads taken in and tossed aside in the past few weeks, here is the true lesson of the Schiavo case: In the three decades since the Karen Ann Quinlan case, there have been only a few big legal battles over the … Read more

Berger

–Sebastian I can’t tell if it is lack of information or bad reporting, but it seems to me that the important details of the Berger document stealing story aren’t accessible.  (See for example The Seattle Times or ABC News).  From what I can tell, Berger was supposed to be helping the 9-11 Commission get information … Read more

At Any Moment

Before her eyes was the violent blue sky — nothing else. For an endless moment she looked into it. Like a great overpowering sound it destroyed everything in her mind, paralyzed her. Someone once had said to her that the sky hides the night behind it, … Unblinking, she fixed the solid emptiness, and the … Read more